I think it is human to have struggled with being your authentic self, especially when you experience true tragedy.
Yesterday, kids I grew up with were tragically killed in a fatal car crash. I knew each and every one of them and their brothers and sisters, parents, and so did everyone else. My entire hometown of Minerva is grieving for the loss of our young people. Many of times in my life I have felt the need to distance myself as far away as possible from that place, but I can say after that fatal event I have never felt prouder.
The community is truly amazing, providing the strength for anyone who needs it. It is hard to be strong alone, but when you can rely on those around you it can make the journey more bearable. http://tnl-news.com/local%20news/2014/11/23/communities-mourn-the-loss-of-three-teens#.VHKks8ZzPHA.facebook
First off, I want to say I am sorry that you and your town have to go through this situation. But isn't interesting how some of the most unexpected events really show exactly who we are. It forces you to react automatically and I think those innate responses are what you are getting at with authenticity. It is really unfortunate that an event like this had to happen but it helps to affirm who we are as people and sometimes that can be the most powerful part. I hope you take away as much as you can and celebrate these peoples lives by carrying on stronger than ever.
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